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Shomer Negiah: Why Not Touching Before Marriage Is Less Crazy Than You Thought

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March 02, 2016

Shomer Negiah: Why Not Touching Before Marriage Is Less Crazy Than You Thought

Several years ago, I was at a conference, and a guy at my...

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Advice, Myths, Relationships, Women |

March 02, 2016

Shomer Negiah: Why Not Touching Before Marriage Is Less Crazy Than You Thought